It is so incredibly hard to believe that we met Charlie one-year ago tomorrow (Sept 21). If the rest of my life goes as quickly as the last year, I am going to be hitting 80 in no time. I admit the year wasn't quite as I had anticipated with my mom's illness and death. And, I think I wasn't all here for Charlie (or the rest of my family) for a while afterward. But, I feel the fog lifting and I feel more in control of my emotions. Oh, our lives are very chaotic and hectic, but our lives are very full and fulfilling.
We celebrated Charlie's adoption this weekend since Pete had to leave for a trip today. Here are a few thoughts about Charlie then and now.
Last year he called me "ayi" (auntie)...this year I am "mommy" (or more appropriately...mmmooommmyyyyy...hear the whine??)
Last year he didn't really know how to kiss or hug...this year he loves to do both.
Last year he didn't know how to go up and down stairs....this year he flies up and down them.
Last year he cried at the sight of our dog...this year he pets her, helps to feed her and even commands her to sit.
Last year he threw about 5 (maybe more) gigantic temper tantrums daily....this year we get a good one only every couple days (that's progress in my book).
Last year he had to line everything up in a row or he'd get freaked out....this year he throws his shoes in a big pile with the rest.
Last year he would hardly let anyone touch any of "his" things...this year he almost always shares (with some prompting).
Last year he knew only China....this year he has been to Virginia, Maryland, Washington, DC, Delaware, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Colorado, Minnesota, California, and Nevada.
Last year he seemed pretty clumsy...this year he can run, jump, ride a scooter, ride a bike with training wheels, kick a soccer ball, swing and lots more!
Last year he didn't speak a word of English....this year he never stops talking English.
Last year he didn't know God...this year he goes to church every week, says prayers before meals, and even went to Vacation Bible School last month.
Last year he didn't know a family's love...this year he likes to whisper in our ears "I love you."
Last year he didn't know what it was like to have a family...this year he has a mommy, daddy, brother, and two sisters that will be his FOREVER!
We love you Charlie and can't imagine our life without you!!
Charlie on his new bike
Celebrating Charlie's Adoption Day with Friends (and Chinese Food, of course)
Charlie's Cake (it says Happy in Chinese Characters...at least we think it does)
1 comment:
He is getting so big! We are so happy for your family. We are so lucky to have "Xie" children. Ella still likes looking at Charlie's pictures although I'm sure all her memories are gone. Big hugs to you and your little one.
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